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Kris Jackson's avatar

The school one hits hard. I dropped out of degree programs twice before - in my 20s when I thought I wanted to be a nurse, and in my 30s when I thought I wanted to be a therapist. I would have been very good at both things. But, at those times, I sacrificed myself for my relationship. Now, in my late 40s, I’m 7/12ths done with my masters in Organizational Leadership. I WILL FINISH THIS DEGREE. BUT, I’m having to take a pause to find a new job and I’m struggling with the pause. I keep repeating to myself that this is a momentary pause and not a stop. Taking a class right now will not get me a new opportunity. My focus can’t be on both things and my actual full time job and the rest of my life. My period is due this week (I hope, thank you perimenopause) and the lack of estrogen has got me down. New moon, new beginnings, right??? Opportunity is just around the corner... 🤞🏼

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Amanda's avatar

I was so close to begin excited about the law school answer. But my question is different. I've been a paralegal for 15 years. I KNOW I would love being a lawyer and I know I would be a good one. But I'm 40. Best case scenario, I'd be 43 when I finished, and more likely, closer to 45. At that point it seems like...what's the point? All the money, all the time... just to be a baby lawyer at 45.

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