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Alyssa Anthony's avatar

I love this one so much. I saw a Tiktok yesterday about a couple that had their own bedrooms and the comments were overwhelming thrilled for them lol

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Shannon's avatar

Before we bought this house we had separate accounts. We lived together in his house and I used to transfer him "rent" which was just an agreed upon amount of money and then he paid for everything (bills, groceries, fuel, insurance etc). It worked out really well!

Now we have everything joint and we both bring in the exact same amount of money. We do bank account audits from time to time to make sure we know where our money is going - but he goes for coffee every morning with his friends or goes riding etc and I buy art supplies and as long as we are both happy and being reasonably considerate, it works out great!

We do have a spare room that he will sleep in if necessary but I always stay in our bed no matter what because it upsets Maxy if I'm not there. We do go to bed at very different times (me 730-8pm, him 11-1130pm) but once I'm asleep there is no bothering me....unless Maxy cries - that whimper gets me up like a firecracker!

I would say our relationship is unconventional in the sense of how much time we spend together. And we spend a LOT of time together; do most errands as a team, he will drive me wherever I want to go, we eat all meals at home together, coffee and tea time are together etc. He sits at the island before dinner while I cook, I sit at the island after dinner while he cleans up. I love it and would not have it any other way.

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