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Kris Jackson's avatar

Wow, Melissa. Thank you for sharing your experience. I am so glad that it is working for you. As we learn more and more about the brain, its functions, its ability to adapt, and how our bodies respond to certain interventions, it’s reassuring that it’s being used to HELP people, instead of exploit them - at least in this iteration!! I can understand your fear about using “a drug” and how it would impact your recovery.

I have only been high on weed a few times (I’m such a RULE BREAKER!), and twice I’ve wanted the experience to be over now, please. My anxiety ratcheted up exponentially because I wasn’t in control. That’s also why I WILL NOT throw up, so the idea of intentionally putting myself in a situation where I could throw up is... not gonna happen. LOL.

Depression is super common in my family, but it’s only in my sister and my lifetime that we’ve actively talked about it with our aunts and my dad. As it turns out, when I did 23 and Me, I found out that I metabolize the Prozac family of drugs (and some other ones, too) too fast, so they don’t work for me. So, all those years trying various forms of Prozac never made a difference. It wasn’t until a psychiatrist prescribed Effexor (which is an SNRI, rather than an SSRI) that I had a MARKED, amazing, overnight improvement. It was astonishing. The sky was BLUE, the clouds were WHITE. It was like everything suddenly had color. I took it for a few years, but the side effects, especially because the meds work less well the longer you take them, were not great. I would get “room spins.” So, I worked my way off of it and did hypnotherapy for a decade. I tried to go back on Effexor a few years ago, and it was horrible. It’s very interesting how body chemistry and the brain change over time.

Currently, I take Zoloft, and that seems to keep me in check, more or less. I have found that for me, if I consciously ALLOW myself to just be where I am, the depression lifts more quickly than if I fight it. Being a high functioning person, no one ever suspects/suspected that anything is/was wrong. It’s a good news/bad news situation. Yay for functioning, but boy is it exhausting. And you literally have to TELL PEOPLE that you’re not okay, because you’re the “strong one” but it sure would be nice if people noticed that you were not okay! Come on, people, read my mind. It’s not that hard!! HA!

Again, thank you so much for your vulnerability in sharing this experience. I appreciate you!

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Nancy Stewart's avatar

Thank you for sharing! I use ketamine as an occasional functioning depressed person, as well. Like Kai, I use a “pill” that goes under my tongue, so I’m at home and it’s a low dose. Zero tripping. I chill out for about 90 minutes while I take it because my only side effect is mild spins. It’s not my favorite 90 minutes but very manageable (and, I don’t suffer well, so if I can handle it, it’s mild ;).

The low does is enough to give me a small mental shift that allows me to work my way out of my low. Sometimes I feel the mental shift the same day; sometimes it’s about 24 hours til I notice a difference. I usually take the ketamine every 3-4 days for 2 weeks (sometimes only one) and then I seem to be back to myself.

So glad my psychiatrist recommended this treatment (btw, first treatment was in his office so he could monitor me and my heart rate). This medicine has been life changing for me.

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