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How to want to have more sex, part 2
You WANT to want to have sex—but you don't want to have sex. Desire types, arousal types, and putting it all together.
Mar 10
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Melissa Urban
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 54
A VERY good thriller, because sometimes that's all you want. Plus a March boundary-pa-looza, the Says No Prospect Ever test, and Doritos gets naked (but…
Mar 6
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Melissa Urban
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10 badass founders share their top lessons
It's International Women's Day (on Sunday 3/8)! We're celebrating our favorite founders by sharing their best tips for any businesswoman
Mar 2
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Melissa Urban
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February 2026
Kiss, Marry or Kill: 53
When your book-book and your audiobook are VIBING. Plus, my favorite expensive fragrances without the expensive price tag, a hidden source of workplace…
Feb 27
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Melissa Urban
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What I'm working on next (and why it feels personal)
A sneak peek into my day-to-day as an advisor to a health-focused VC fund
Feb 23
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Melissa Urban
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 52
A love story gone wrong (then right? let's discuss.) Also, TikTok smut, more tips on going analog, one menopause tip you'll be eager to employ, and…
Feb 20
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Melissa Urban
83
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5 invaluable lessons from my first real job
28 years ago, my boss asked me to do something icky. Here's what it taught me.
Feb 17
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Melissa Urban
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 51
A book that left me like "WTAF." Plus, dogs are family (so you need this), I like this food and you can't shame me out of it, do this one thing to…
Feb 13
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Melissa Urban
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Curb impulse spending with one little question
Times are tight, y'all. Here's the tried-and-true trick that keeps me from overconsuming and overspending.
Feb 9
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Melissa Urban
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 50
I'm on Book 5 of 27 (!!) and have NO PLANS OF STOPPING. Also, a hair update, a guide to comfort food, the Instagram account keeping me going, a Kill…
Feb 6
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Melissa Urban
46
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How to want to have more sex, part 1
You know it will feel good... but you just can't get in the mood. Here's what you might be missing, and what you can do about it.
Feb 2
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Melissa Urban
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January 2026
Anatomy of a "political" post
The same sentiments, two different channels, a WILDLY different response, and many lessons learned.
Jan 28
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Melissa Urban
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