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XOMU: Three communication patterns that are ruining your relationships
And the one simple rule that will fix 'em all
Apr 10, 2023 • 
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XOMU: Making "Lucky Girl syndrome" even more effective
The one thing this TikTok manifestation trend is missing
Apr 3, 2023 • 
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WWMUD: How can I teach myself to be more empathetic?
Empathy is both a trait and a skill. Here are three practices that helped me turn empathy into a superpower.
Apr 14, 2023 • 
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WWMUD: How can I teach myself to be more empathetic?
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WWMUD: How do I tell my friend struggling with fertility that I'm pregnant?
How to share your news sensitively when friends are grieving
Apr 7, 2023 • 
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WWMUD: How do I tell my friend struggling with fertility that I'm pregnant?
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 03
The math game I can't stop playing, the air fryer that won after months of research, and why the EWG's Dirty Dozen ain't that "clean"
Apr 12, 2023 • 
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BONUS XOMU: Lotion, candles, and socks
My favorites in these three specific categories (with links and prices) by request
Apr 4, 2023 • 
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XOMU: Why I started taping my mouth shut at night
How James Nestor's book Breath inspired me to start mouth-taping, and how it's helped my sleep and health
Apr 17, 2023 • 
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XOMU: What's in my carry-on
The snacks, tech, and comfort essentials I pack in my carry-on for every flight
May 1, 2023 • 
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 05 (Airplane carry-on edition)
A special edition, featuring my favorite carry on essentials
May 4, 2023 • 
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 04
A book, a cooler, the ONLY place to order Thin Mints, and why reading your labels is more important than ever
Apr 26, 2023 • 
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 04
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Kiss, Marry or Kill: 06
THE BOOK, a hiking upgrade, the funniest commercial you'll see all week, and a legitimately life-saving iPhone hack to protect your data and wallet
May 11, 2023 • 
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XOMU: A test of gratitude
July ended with a bang... literally. A personal update, shared with my private community
Aug 3, 2023 • 
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